Grief & Loss

The best things to say to someone in Grief

  1. I am so sorry for your loss.
  2. I wish I had the right words; just know I care.
  3. I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.
  4. You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.
  5. My favorite memory of your loved one is …..
  6. I am always just a phone call away.
  7. Give a hug instead of saying something.
  8. We all need help at times like this, I am here for you.
  9. I am usually up early or late, if you need anything.
  10. Saying nothing, just be with the person

The worst things to say to someone in Grief

  1. At least she/he lived a long life; many people die young.
  2. She/he is in a better place.
  3. She/he brought this on her/himself.
  4. There is a reason for everything.
  5. Aren’t you over her/him yet? She/he has been dead for a while now.
  6. You can still have another child.
  7. She/he was such a good person that God wanted her/him to be with Him.
  8. I know how you feel.
  9. She/he did what she/he came here to do and it was their time to go.
  10. Be strong.